Saturday, May 14, 2011

Objectify Chicks: My Chat With an Attorney

http://objectifygirls.blogspot.com/2010/05/my-chat-with-attorney.html

Friday, May 28, 2010

My Chat With an Attorney

So I was talking to an attorney earlier this week. The conversation shifted - lurched - from a generic "how-are-you-doing?-how's-the-family-how-ya-likin'-your-new-office-manager?" to "Why I no longer practice family law...." The attorney says to me, "I've had it. All family lawyers are outrageous liars." This was not news to me. "And the judges - for God's sake! - the judges tolerate childish antics from the attorneys because they are afraid of calling women out on their neurotic and juvenile behavior..." Of course, the implicit fact behind this statement is that most family lawyers are, indeed, women. Oddly, family law once was the area of practice that the bottom ten per cent of a law school class went into because it isn't really law - it is more like institutionalized temper tantrum throwing, which suits women well.... "... and the women!" the attorney continued. "Holy #$@&!!! I guess the judges in family court tolerate perjury so much because if they didn't, the women wouldn't be allowed to testify at all!!!" While I agreed with what the attorney was saying, and inwardly was cheering, I did find it odd to be hearing all this - from a FEMALE attorney! While I was tempted to ask her how many of the men she thought were lying, I figured that question might telegraph my position a bit much. Instead, I offered, "Yeah, and those godawful domestic violence hearings. I mean, once I saw a guy get thrown into jail because he had cancelled an insurance policy without telling his wife - she claimed it "made her fearful for her safety" and under the DVPO law in our state, the judge just locked him up....." My female attorney friend didn't miss a beat. "Phshaw!" she exclaimed. "Domestic Violence indeed! I swear that 85% of the allegations offered by women are patently, obviously false. These women start committing adultery and in order to keep their husbands from finding out -or worse, ratting them out to friends and family - all of a sudden their husbands are "controlling" and "emotionally distant" and "emotionally abusive. I have yet to see a woman enter a DVPO hearing complaining of bruising, if you know what I mean" my attorney friend volunteered, somewhat craftily. So it turns out that my FEMALE attorney friend, who admits that she started her law practice with "high hopes" and "faith in the system," now considers herself "jaded" and "never to darken the doors of a family court again." Why? "Those lying women," both the family law attorneys and their clients. Who'da thunk it?

Monday, May 9, 2011

Dont give up....

When you start feeling like you want to give up, remember why you held on for so long in the 1st place. Shared via Tweetcaster

BC family law tax changes

@bcfamilylaw: Child Tax benefit changes effective July 1, 2011 be aware! http://www.cra-arc.gc.ca/gncy/bdgt/2010/shrdcstd-eng.html Shared via Tweetcaster

BC Family law divorce tips

@bcfamilylaw: Smart BC Divorce Tips if you are considering a BC divorce 1-877-602-9900 http://www.bcfamilylaw.ca/family-law/preparing-for-divorce/ Shared via Tweetcaster

Sunday, April 10, 2011

A female lawyer with an understanding of canadian families


I really like this writer and its great to she is female, a lawyer and seems to understand our plight with the injustices in the Canadian Family leagl system

here is her blog; http://lawdiva.wordpress.com/
and her web page: http://www.georgialeelang.com/

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Saturday, March 12, 2011

The sign of a "responsible" according to the courts



So once again I see on facebook this morning only to see that christa made a post saying she and corran were partying at Inks Lake, a popular party spot 20min out of town at 3am. Where is this "responsible" mother?

Thursday, March 10, 2011

And again it happens


So corran calls me at 230,he is at his girlfriends school and is cold so he's looking for a ride. I'm about 2 blocks away when he calls asking if I have anything else to do in town, long story short Brittanys boyfriend had shown up at the school Magically to pick corran up. It's like lynn and Brittany are "blocking" corran to prevent him from seeing me again.